The stones show the way

27 sept 2026
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A cairn is not a monument. Not in the traditional sense. Nobody builds one to be admired. It goes up because a person stood at a confusing place, worked out where the next step went, and spent a minute stacking stones so the next person wouldn’t have to solve it alone. It’s not a map either: an abstraction in miniature, from above, and already out of date the moment it’s drawn.

A cairn is different in kind. It was placed by someone standing exactly where you are, saying:

I was here… this way… keep going.

I’ve been thinking about how little of that we do with what we learn. Not the school stuff, there’s reams on that. I mean the street stuff: the painful lessons, the gotchas, and the discernment that comes with being burned. We reach a hard-won clearing, feel the relief of it, and walk on without leaving a mark for anyone else to follow. The knowledge stays in us and fades with time.

A cairn is the opposite instinct. Turn around, look at the fork that nearly lost you, and leave something small and deliberate for whoever comes after.

I trust cairns. They don’t show more… in fact, they show almost nothing. But what they do show is priceless.

It was verified by a living being present right here in a moment they labeled right now.

And that’s a kinship which a glass lens mindlessly panning the earth feeding a microscopic image sensor and an algorithm can never understand, let alone share.

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Traveller, there is no path. The path is made by walking.

Antonio Machado, Campos de Castilla (1912)

My exploration of cairns led me down a few rabbit holes, from Iceland to New Zealand, Somalia to Canada, Peru to Mongolia. It’s fitting that no part of the globe has been left untouched by the simple act of leaving a marker for the ones who follow.

Image sources: Ricky French - Wilderness Magazine | Chris Dunn - On Planet Earth | Nathalie Marian | Nick Bondarev - ArtHouse Studio | Eric Prouzet

I was inspired reading Chris Dunn's photo-essay, not just for his gorgeous photography, but for sharing his perspective on how his exploration helped him see the world through different eyes.

Cairns, as you will see, are much more than stacked rocks.

And I was moved by reading this piece by Karen :) - the smiley face is hers! I couldn’t help but binge her whole series of short posts about cairns.

What is truly important will remain, and that is LOVE. What we do now is what matters most. How our lives will live on in future generations is what we invest in those who are living now. Our names may never be said, but our love will continue. What we do each day for others will become our greatest legacy.
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What did you work out this week that you have not yet left a stone for?

A simple practice from the comfort of your home: find a quiet spot where you won’t be disturbed for 5 minutes and sit with the question above. Write down what emerges.

Or, pick one that reflects what’s top of mind for you from a list of beautiful questions curated in the Seed Bank.

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